Once upon a time this was about Me and The Boy. The it was Me, The Boy, The Cat and The Cat's Mother. And now, I'm not sure who it's about. How life changes when you least expect it!
Saturday, 9 December 2017
Ello, ello...photo time
I mentioned once before, I think that I like to devote my spare time to photography, and also that I posted my efforts to a particular website... Ello. If you'd like to see my efforts, click here which will take you to https://ello.co/notabene
The site has encouraged me to think about my photography and try and get better...and I can't help but admit that I like that my pictures have been viewed over a quarter of a million times. For some of them, if you click on the picture there is a mini-gallery of related images. It has also encouraged me to join the Royal Photographic Society, and to consider applying for the LRPS award...but I find it a little daunting at the moment
I can't say which is my favourite, but here are a few that are as good as any
Unexpected Amsterdam
The cyclist
Brighton in motion
Untitled
Ground zero
Sunflowers
The Tower of the hill
For the homeless there is no light at the end of the tunnel
21st cafe society
Roses
Contemporary architecture near the Old Bailey
Fire lilly from Amsterdam
Monday, 4 December 2017
The refugee issue
This is a piece written by my son. I am extraordinarily proud of him, and hopefully you can see why when you read it
"While a student at school (having left in 2013) I took a great interest in the German language, spending a year living in Kitzbühel, Austria before taking up my place at the University of Edinburgh, where I (eventually) settled on the degree of ‘German and Scandinavian Studies’. Since starting in Edinburgh, I continued to visit and work in Austria, as well as learning Norwegian, and working in the Western Norwegian fjords during my summer breaks from studies.
As with most modern language students, the third year of my degree is to be spent abroad, and as I am a dual honours student, I chose to split this between working in Germany, and studying in Norway. Since September I’ve been living in Mainz, working as a teacher in the towns of Bad Kreuznach and Wiesbaden.
Since 2015, Germany has (for the most part) welcomed hundreds of thousands of the 1.3 million asylum seekers Angela Merkel decided the country had a national duty to suspend the Dublin accords for, with the famous phrase ‘Wir schaffen das’ (We can do this). Germany is particularly well suited to achieving this, given the two previous major migration events in the country’s recent history: The 1955-1973 ‘Guest workers’ from predominantly Turkey, Spain, Greece and Italy, invited to participate in the manufacturing increase as part of the West German ‘Economic Wonder’, and the 1990s ‘Resettlement’ of Germans who had been sent to keep German national Catherine the Great company in the 18th Century, who had since found themselves firmly within the Soviet Sphere of influence. Compare the 438,190 asylum applications of 1992 with 441,800 filed in 2015, and we begin to see clearly that while history does not necessarily repeat itself, it very often rhymes.
Whilst my personal mandate during this part of my year abroad has been to work predominantly as an English language assistant, to ignore the impact of current migration events in Germany is to ignore both the history of the nation, and its current culture. As such, I was given relatively free reign to design my teaching timetable as I saw fit and in September and October I would spend my mondays on a farm in the village of Ingelheim, looking after children who lived in the nearby asylum center. The importance of giving these children the chance to get some fresh air, away from the former military camp they are calling home, to sit on horses, feed sheep and relax cannot be understated. The level of German is hugely variable, but clues as to the journey that has been taken can be found; one child was able to understand most of what was said to him, and the social workers knew he was using actual words to respond, but couldn't make out the language. I realised he spoke a mix of German and Swedish, apparently having been in Sweden for some time before his family ended up being sent back to Germany where they had been registered, but not yet recognised as refugees.
In the nearby town of Bad Kreuznach, one of the schools I work in runs “German as a Second Language” courses (Deutsch als Zweitsprache or DAZ) parallel to the “normal” school day, from learning the alphabet up to the level required for University studies, accommodating for the 80% of students attending who come from a migration background. Teaching the German language, often without having another one to communicate it is a unique challenge, and the staff here do exceptional work in bringing their students up to the required level, many of those who arrived in 2015 about to leave secondary education with great marks and university level language skills. Imagine trying to explain the term Past Participle, when your students understand neither word, and you will have an idea of what my classes have entailed. Watching students from all over the world helping each other to understand, translating for new arrivals, is truly heartwarming. As one member of staff remarked “our playground looks like the UN, just with less shouting”. The challenge of a parents evening where you rely on an 11 year old to translate the fact that they haven't done their homework to parents also trying to learn German requires an enormous amount of mutual trust, and a sense of humour - rarely does it take an extra two sentences and pointing to others in the room to translate ‘I didn’t do my homework 3 times in a row’.
Whilst this work has had some truly wonderful moments, and been incredibly rewarding, it can be exceptionally tough at times, in particular when all some of these kids want to do is go home, not sit in a classroom and learn a language they had never heard of before arriving here. Especially difficult was finding out from a colleague about a family whose paperwork had not checked out, and that the little girl we had got to know over the course of several weeks in my case, and months for my colleagues, was being deported. That will stay with the people who work here for a long time.
But so will the smiles once the words ‘Schneller!’ or “Nochmals!’ (Faster and again) have been learned by the swingset. Or the moment this week when a young chap from Eritrea explained with barely hesitation that he had been to the doctor yesterday, and would pick up his glasses next week, having worked on the past and future tenses for two weeks. Completely selfishly, helping others to learn German has done wonders for my own, and teaching English in another school has provided a good mix of work to keep me engaged in both sides of the language teaching component of my current semester.
I would thoroughly recommend anyone to seek out a spot where you can assist with teaching languages, and particularly seek out those who have arrived in a country with nothing but a desperate desire to be safe. Get to know them, laugh with them, and accept that they will speak the language better than you far faster than anyone might have expected.
Tuesday, 21 November 2017
Whole lotta love
We go to a lot of gigs and theatrical performances. We're very lucky that way.
When I was at school, I spent my latter years as a boarder. We all had our own room, and at the end of our corridor was a kettle, a toaster, bread, milk and most importantly a record player. At home I listened to 'lovely' music. At school I was subjected to everyone else's taste...Black Sabbath, early Pink Floyd, Deep Purple and Led Zep. I kind of tolerated it, and occasionally after we'd sneaked out to the pub behind the teachers' backs I probably quite enjoyed it. Three years ago, and I can't remember why, I bought a CD by Robert Plant, lead singer of Led Zep. I was blown away...absolutely loved it, listened to it time and time again, and bought pretty much his entire back catalogue. I became desperate to see him live, in concert, but he never seemed to...until this year. A fabulous new album, a new tour. As ever tickets were almost impossible, and I just couldn't get them in London....so we bought tickets for Plymouth. A 500 mile round trip. We stayed over, of course after a six hour drive and had a nice time wandering in the old town. The concert was fantastic...it more than lived up to expectations.
But what made it all worthwhile was the next day, when getting some fresh air, we bumped into Mr Plant himself. He was very friendly indeed, and was grateful when we pointed him in the direction of the Plymouth Gin Distillery. I was as excited as a small boy in toy shop...but hey, why not!
One of my favourite songs from the album:
When I was at school, I spent my latter years as a boarder. We all had our own room, and at the end of our corridor was a kettle, a toaster, bread, milk and most importantly a record player. At home I listened to 'lovely' music. At school I was subjected to everyone else's taste...Black Sabbath, early Pink Floyd, Deep Purple and Led Zep. I kind of tolerated it, and occasionally after we'd sneaked out to the pub behind the teachers' backs I probably quite enjoyed it. Three years ago, and I can't remember why, I bought a CD by Robert Plant, lead singer of Led Zep. I was blown away...absolutely loved it, listened to it time and time again, and bought pretty much his entire back catalogue. I became desperate to see him live, in concert, but he never seemed to...until this year. A fabulous new album, a new tour. As ever tickets were almost impossible, and I just couldn't get them in London....so we bought tickets for Plymouth. A 500 mile round trip. We stayed over, of course after a six hour drive and had a nice time wandering in the old town. The concert was fantastic...it more than lived up to expectations.
But what made it all worthwhile was the next day, when getting some fresh air, we bumped into Mr Plant himself. He was very friendly indeed, and was grateful when we pointed him in the direction of the Plymouth Gin Distillery. I was as excited as a small boy in toy shop...but hey, why not!
One of my favourite songs from the album:
Thursday, 9 November 2017
Sins of the father
The thing about being successful in our society is that it enables you to buy stuff. The more successful, the more stuff, and better stuff. We buy it because we like it. And if it stopped there all would be fine. But we are emotional beings, and we form attachments to stuff...your favourite coffee mug, the old jumper that keeps you warm in winter, and so on. I have been lucky because at a relatively young age, my favourite mug did get broken, but I was told and quickly took on board that it could be replaced. So for me stuff has generally remained just stuff...though some stuff, presents, for example, I have an emotional attachment to. Probably the downside to that thinking is that I may buy something, but when something better comes along, I want the new thing...so in some ways it has fed my insatiable desire for stuff.
The one thing I have bought and have broken the rule about emotional attachment to is my bicycle. Man and machine in perfect harmony, it has taken me thousands of miles up hills and mountains, down valleys, along the straightest of roads, and down narrow, twisty country lanes. Every yard, every mile has involved sweat, and sometimes tears. It has given me great joy and an immense sense of success. There are the obvious big rides London to Brighton, London to Paris, London to Amsterdam, Exeter to Essex, London Revolutions, Birmingham Velo London to Cambridge, London 100 and many more. I have a fantastic set of medals to remember my endeavours. But there are the smaller rides which have been just as rewarding - cycling round the road track at Lee Valley Velo, doing my short circuits up and down hills to get fit. I have momentarily faced death when I've been knocked off by thoughtless drivers. This year has in some ways been the most rewarding - an injury in March kept me out of the saddle for weeks, and generally I have spent the months since regaining my strength to keep me pedaling. Despite some tricky times when I thought I wouldn't be able to turn the pedal another revolution and could hardly bear to look up from the tarmac on a seemingly ever-steepening hill, I can say I have loved every minute of riding. And in truth I bonded with my cycle. I never once thought of replacing it, never looked at another bike and thought I want that one.
The other cycle I own is the one I rode when my son Fred, then 13, and I cycled from Brighton to Buckhurst Hill....that was the most remarkable bonding experience imaginable. It was a most amazing achievement for him, and something I hope he remembers all his life.
So perhaps you can understand my devastation when, this week our garage was broken into and my motorcycle and my two bicycles were taken. A tracker device on my motorbike has meant it has been quickly recovered...with relatively little damage. But my bicycles have gone for good. I'm devastated. Heartbroken, because at the moment it feels that with it's disappearance, so too my memories of my cycling triumphs, and disasters, have been damaged. I am very sad.
Tragically, the two people arrested when my motorbike was recovered appear to be a father and son. The son is a twelve year-old boy. That makes me weep. How could a parent do that to a child? That child's life is blighted, and generally experience shows, his life is ruined. There is a pattern to people who get involved criminal activity so young and it is so rare that they make good, that when t does, it makes headlines. There is not a strong chance they will be convicted either as there was no witness to the crime itself, and that is a tragedy in itself because the lad will feel that he's got away with it, it will boost his confidence to carry on breaking the law.
At home, we are increasing the security measures again, gradually turning a home into a fortress. Every time we have had someone either break-in or attempt to break in we've added another layer of security. It's not nice, it doesn't encourage a feeling of comfort and cosiness.
No one is a winner from this.
The one thing I have bought and have broken the rule about emotional attachment to is my bicycle. Man and machine in perfect harmony, it has taken me thousands of miles up hills and mountains, down valleys, along the straightest of roads, and down narrow, twisty country lanes. Every yard, every mile has involved sweat, and sometimes tears. It has given me great joy and an immense sense of success. There are the obvious big rides London to Brighton, London to Paris, London to Amsterdam, Exeter to Essex, London Revolutions, Birmingham Velo London to Cambridge, London 100 and many more. I have a fantastic set of medals to remember my endeavours. But there are the smaller rides which have been just as rewarding - cycling round the road track at Lee Valley Velo, doing my short circuits up and down hills to get fit. I have momentarily faced death when I've been knocked off by thoughtless drivers. This year has in some ways been the most rewarding - an injury in March kept me out of the saddle for weeks, and generally I have spent the months since regaining my strength to keep me pedaling. Despite some tricky times when I thought I wouldn't be able to turn the pedal another revolution and could hardly bear to look up from the tarmac on a seemingly ever-steepening hill, I can say I have loved every minute of riding. And in truth I bonded with my cycle. I never once thought of replacing it, never looked at another bike and thought I want that one.
The other cycle I own is the one I rode when my son Fred, then 13, and I cycled from Brighton to Buckhurst Hill....that was the most remarkable bonding experience imaginable. It was a most amazing achievement for him, and something I hope he remembers all his life.
So perhaps you can understand my devastation when, this week our garage was broken into and my motorcycle and my two bicycles were taken. A tracker device on my motorbike has meant it has been quickly recovered...with relatively little damage. But my bicycles have gone for good. I'm devastated. Heartbroken, because at the moment it feels that with it's disappearance, so too my memories of my cycling triumphs, and disasters, have been damaged. I am very sad.
Tragically, the two people arrested when my motorbike was recovered appear to be a father and son. The son is a twelve year-old boy. That makes me weep. How could a parent do that to a child? That child's life is blighted, and generally experience shows, his life is ruined. There is a pattern to people who get involved criminal activity so young and it is so rare that they make good, that when t does, it makes headlines. There is not a strong chance they will be convicted either as there was no witness to the crime itself, and that is a tragedy in itself because the lad will feel that he's got away with it, it will boost his confidence to carry on breaking the law.
At home, we are increasing the security measures again, gradually turning a home into a fortress. Every time we have had someone either break-in or attempt to break in we've added another layer of security. It's not nice, it doesn't encourage a feeling of comfort and cosiness.
No one is a winner from this.
Sunday, 5 November 2017
Out of Africa
It was an extraordinarily happy moment when my son and his girlfriend joined us in South Africa for our safari holiday. Apart from that, here's the video...sorry it runs to twenty minutes, and redefines the old phrase about coming round to watch my holiday movies
https://youtu.be/6G4wVBLwmIw
https://youtu.be/6G4wVBLwmIw
Thursday, 14 September 2017
Florence
We headed off to Florence for a few days. The Muffins were already there staying in an apartment; we checked in to the Four Seasons. To get to the airport in London, we traveled by Tube for less than £3, we were collected from Florence airport by the Hotel car. It was a Bentley. I think I'm a little embarrassed by this. Florence was boiling - 38 degrees; you could hardly move. One evening we had a picnic in the Hotel grounds - a beautiful hamper in a secluded area. It was quite magical. One meal out was quite memorable because I ate ' wild beast in sweet sauce' that'll be wild boar in chocolate sauce...very traditional evidently.
Other than that, I took a lot of photos whilst we wandered around.
Other than that, I took a lot of photos whilst we wandered around.
Wednesday, 9 August 2017
On your bike (again)
I enjoy a good cycle ride...you may know that already. Last year my 'major' rides were London Revolutions (200 miles in two days circling London), London to Amsterdam and the classic Exeter to Essex... The first tow were organised events, but the latter was just me and my bike, a ruck sack and Google Maps braving 240 miles...I loved this ride as it gave me a real sense of satisfaction. This year I toyed with the idea of Lands End to John O'Groats, but in February disaster struck. Excruciating pain in my left hip/pelvis down to my knee....I could barely walk. I have spent many hours with doctors, physios, osteopaths, in scanning machines and with sports masseurs without being given a definitive answer...or indeed cure. I'm currently with a cycling specialist and whilst I can still feel pain, I'm a lot better. Better enough that in June I did a 100km night ride around London. I love night cycling, especially through cities...the sights and sounds are amazing...you certainly realise that London never sleeps.
And then last week, I rode the Prudential London 100. That's 100 miles. In the past I may have worried about my rate of progress, but this time I was more concerned about finishing. Even though it started from the Olympic Park, which is within spitting distance of home, a requirement to be there 2 hours before departure time meant that I was up at 4.00 am and in the starting gate at 5.30....bloody hell I was tired before I'd turned a pedal! Anyway, a few aches and pains in the first 26 miles disappeared and my confidence grew even when tackling the extremely challenging Leith Hill and less challenging but infamous Box Hill...after that it was all down hill (well nearly...bloody Wimbledon!). I finished, got an enormous medal and am very pleased. The aches are still with me, but my confidence has returned.
And then last week, I rode the Prudential London 100. That's 100 miles. In the past I may have worried about my rate of progress, but this time I was more concerned about finishing. Even though it started from the Olympic Park, which is within spitting distance of home, a requirement to be there 2 hours before departure time meant that I was up at 4.00 am and in the starting gate at 5.30....bloody hell I was tired before I'd turned a pedal! Anyway, a few aches and pains in the first 26 miles disappeared and my confidence grew even when tackling the extremely challenging Leith Hill and less challenging but infamous Box Hill...after that it was all down hill (well nearly...bloody Wimbledon!). I finished, got an enormous medal and am very pleased. The aches are still with me, but my confidence has returned.